Thursday, December 8, 2011

Kicking off Christmas

It's so true what everyone says — kids really do make Christmas even better!
So far we're having a ball getting into the Christmas spirit around here.

Decorating the house and re-exploring the Fisher Price nativity


Making gingerbread men

Walking down Christmas Lane

Staying warm

Can't wait to enjoy all the rest that December has in store.

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Ever so thankful

Thanksgiving is such a wonderful — albeit often overlooked — holiday. I am so grateful for the chance to reflect on my innumerable blessings and to do so while gorging myself on an obscene amount of food. :)

This year we spent the holiday at my parent's house. Because of some tragic news for my sister's husband's family (see here) our Thanksgiving plans were altered somewhat when Karen and her family headed to Idaho Falls on Thanksgiving instead of staying with us in Cedar City. Although we missed them, we had a delicious dinner — thanks to the amazing efforts of my mother — and we thoroughly enjoyed our visit with my parents, my brother Brian and his wife Leslie and my Grandma Grady.


In the few hours they were able to spend together, Lydia latched onto her cousin Kate and followed her around like a puppy. Fortunately Kate seemed to really enjoy the attention from her adoring fan.
I can't get enough of these two!


Kate and Lydia are the same distance in age as Karen and I. Perhaps that's why I love seeing them play together. It feels so familiar.


Gearing up for turkey time!


The dinner crew


Hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving too!

Friday, November 18, 2011

That's a lotta years!

Recently, my Grandma Grady hit a birthday landmark: The big 9-0!


I can't imagine being 90 — and it's remarkable to think of all the things she has seen.
Equally remarkable is the fact that she is still in good health, able to live on her own, travel and seems to still be enjoying life.
We're lucky to have her in our lives!

We had a family gathering to celebrate her big day. Nearly all of her posterity (minus a few who were unable to fly in for the occasion) were there.

My dad and two of his siblings with their mom.


Me and my cousin Bryan. We have a very similar photo taken at her 80th birthday party so we had to capture this moment as well.


Derek with Andrew (my cousin Bryan's son) and Lydia



Friday, November 11, 2011

Worst day

Let's just say, it started with a call to Poison Control.

No, wait. Back up. It started when Lydia woke up at 5 a.m. and never really went back to sleep. The Poison Control phone call was a couple of hours later.

A mixture of diluted hydrogen peroxide and water left carelessly in a cup on the counter (by me), was assumed (by my husband) to be remnants of Lydia's drinking water from that morning, so when she reached for it on the counter, he handed it over.
I walked into the kitchen a few minutes later to see her holding this cup and started to panic. Although it seems hydrogen peroxide can't be too deadly (I know several people who rinse and spit the stuff to get rid of mouth sores) I read the label anyway and placed the call to Poison Control.
The woman was very helpful and told me if she was going to have any problems it would likely be within the next hour and it would probably only cause her to throw up.

Time elapsed. I went to work and left her with my mother-in-law for the day. She hadn't gotten sick. It seemed the worst was behind us.

Of course not.

I left work early to pick Lydia up to get her to an appointment with an allergist. We've had some indications that she might have some food allergies so after waiting 3 months to get into this particular doctor, we were finally on our way to some concrete answers.
As we left, my mother-in-law told me that if Lydia didn't poop the rest of the day it was probably because she'd refused to eat anything but American cheese slices all day (gross!) and she'd had 11 slices.

Eleven?!
Two-year-olds can be so finicky.

Pulling into the parking lot of what I thought was the correct building I proceeded to unbuckle Lydia from her carseat. Before I reached in to pull her out, she projectile vomited ALL over the car, her clothes, her car seat... EVERYTHING!
I pulled her out into the parking lot, stripped her down and made a feeble attempt to wipe up some of the mess before I realized I did not have nearly enough wipes or any other supplies to deal with the problem. Plus, I didn't want to be late for the appointment that took 3 months to get into.

The smell would have to wait.

I called Derek and asked him to bring her a change of clothes and wrapped Lydia in the only thing I had in my car — a large Mexican picnic-type blanket — and hauled her diaper bag laden with toys, my purse and all 32 pounds of her into what turned out to be the wrong building.

Chastising myself for not exercising more frequently I huffed and puffed my way over to the next building and up to the third floor.

I can only imagine what the receptionist at the doctor's office thought when she saw this harried mother and her naked urchin child stumbling in.

I quickly explained what had happened, lest she be tempted to call Child Protective Services or something, and then I cuddled Lydia in the waiting room while she told me over and over how she "spilled" in the car and that her clothes were dirty.
Poor little thing.

Derek arrived, his armor shimmering under the fluorescent lights, his white horse waiting just outside. We quickly dressed Lydia and then he went out to wipe down the car and take it to a nearby car wash to have it detailed.

In the meantime, Lydia and I endured the allergist appointment -- a test I've been dreading but after everything we'd lived through, it seemed like a breeze. Ironically Poison Control called me back while we were in the doctor's office to see if Lydia was doing OK. I explained that she'd gotten sick but they said the time frame was far more likely related to something she ate (maybe 11 slices of American cheese?) than to the hydrogen peroxide.

The bad news at the end of the doctor's appointment confirmed our suspicions that this little girl has a peanut allergy.

I am really sad.

I realize that in the scheme of things that could be wrong with your child this is absolutely miniscule and my heart truly goes out to several friends who I know are dealing with FAR weightier issues than this. Still, all I could think of suddenly were all the foods we typically enjoy that have peanuts/peanut butter in them. I just hate to have anything wrong with her, no matter how insignificant.

The last straw of the night came when we headed to have some blood work done on Lydia to corroborate the allergy skin test. I absolutely loathe having my blood drawn so I was already feeling a little woozy walking into the lab. Then, to have to hold my daughter in a tight hug while Derek attempted to distract her and two phlebotomists maneuvered the needle into her arm -- it was almost too much.
She screamed bloody murder.
I managed not to cry until I was in the car.

The good news is, the day eventually ended. We picked up our car which smelled fresh and clean and headed home with Lydia proudly displaying the special bandage she received at the blood lab.

She is such an angel. Even on the worst of days, I am so grateful to be her mother.

Friday, November 4, 2011

Aloha Halloween


I love couple/family theme Halloween costumes but after last year's amazing Curious George Flies a Kite combo, it was difficult to think of something that could stack up in terms of clever and cute.

Hey — what good is a blog if it's not a place to brag?

I'm kidding. Sort of... :)

So this year Derek and I decided to use a couple of things we already had on hand.

But what good is a Hawaiian couple ...


... without their roasting pig?



It took a little doing to craft the pig costume since apparently all the cute pig costumes are only available up to 18 months in size. That's not going to work for us. We're more of a 3T pig kind of family. Fortunately I was able to create this little number and I have to say, I think Lydia makes an adorable pig. Right down to the curly tail.


Halloween was good to us this year. We went to a great party with some friends. They had really gone all out with a bounce house for the kids, face painting, s'more roasting, pot luck dinner, the works. It was a fabulous event.



On actual Halloween we took Lydia trick or treating. She was only mildly interested. She liked the candy, but it takes her a while to warm up to the idea of approaching strangers (or often even people she knows) — and time is not a luxury one has when the basic idea is "trick or treat" and "thank you" and you're on your way.

Still it was a good time.

Now that Halloween is over it seems the biggest tragedy in Lydia's life (and thereby mine) is that the neighbors have taken down their awesome Halloween decorations that literally had us standing in their front yard on a daily basis in October while Lydia admired the "pump" (pumpkin) and the ghosts and the "scary" (some sort of Grim Reaper guy). She really misses all that stuff.

Here's hoping the neighbors have something equally impressive up their sleeves for the Christmas season :)

Saturday, October 29, 2011

Lydia lately

As I put together the last couple of blogs I had a slew of random photos that didn't really go anywhere, but as you'll see, they are just too adorable not to be blogged :)

Me, biased? Of course not.

Waiting outside Rusty's when the birthday dinner was
longer than a 2-year-old could handle


Helping mom decorate for Halloween/Fall


???
Apparently Mom's hiking socks and old tennis shoes are all the rage.


I actually thought we were having fun at Park Discovery.
Evidently, at this moment, Lydia did not agree.

Your shirt says it all sister!
As a nod to her daddy's love of music, these are my current favorite of her pajamas


Trying out her pal, Josh's, ride


My little gardener

A favorite past time

Surprise visitors

In the midst of my recovery from my appendectomy, we had two sets of surprise guests — both of which were great diversions from an otherwise monotonous period of time.
The first was my cousin, Frank, and his wife, Emily, and their two kids as they made their way across the country back to their home in Maryland. We knew they going to be coming but they ended up bumping their trip up a little and were here a week or so ahead of schedule. It was great to see them! I just wish I'd been able to be a little better hostess for them. Still, Lydia had a great time playing with her second cousins and I enjoyed the time catching up with Frank and Emily. Tragically since neither I, nor Emily, were feeling up to much, I didn't get any pictures of the adults. The kids were willing to hold still for a couple of moments for a photo though.


Frankie and Lydia


Katie, Frankie and Lydia

The second surprise was actually a surprise for my mom. My brother, Kevin, flew in with his family to surprise my mom for her birthday! It was so fun to have this bonus visit with them since I hadn't expected to see them again until December. It was fantastic!
Although, again, I wasn't up for much in the hostessing department, I did enjoy several late night chats, games and a dinner out to celebrate my amazing mom. Thanks so much Kev for making the effort to come :)


I can't believe this is the only photo I got of the entire time they were here and it doesn't even capture everyone at dinner. Leslie and Colin and Lydia and I were also there. Sadly, Derek was sick and had to miss out on the celebration at Rusty's.


I love this picture of Lydia and me. It's so rare to get a photo of her without a fake cheese smile lately and even more rare to have the two of us in the photo together. I've got to work on that...

Monday, October 24, 2011

Back in the saddle again


After what feels like a ridiculous amount of time out of the loop, thanks to an unexpected bout of appendicitis (are these things ever expected? Unlikely) I am trying to get back into the groove. I am feeling much better — not quite 100% but I'll get there — and am overwhelmed by the love and support people have so willingly given even for a "routine surgery" like an appendectomy.
In my opinion it's only "routine" to the surgeons, not to the person who is suddenly thrust out of their routine by the unwelcome hospital visit and subsequent recovery.

It started with the worst stomach ache in the world. After writhing in pain all night it was clear I was not going to take care of Lydia that day so Derek arranged for sub for his class so he could take care of Lydia all day.

It turns out it was a fantastic daddy-daughter day. They headed to the carousel in the Town Square, then went to story time at the library, played at the park and went to the dentist.
OK, that last one was not exactly a fun part of the day, but it was an appointment I'd made weeks before and so off they went to her first dental visit.
At first I felt bad to miss such a monumental first in her life, but Derek tells me she did nothing but scream, so I don't really feel that bad. It was just a cleaning, but apparently she's not a fan of the dentist. Like mother like daughter.



Lydia in the dentist's waiting room... before she knew what was coming :)


Derek has donned his superhero cape more than once over the last several weeks — in fact he's rarely taken it off — as he has taken care of everything with Lydia, with our home, as well as keeping up with work and school. He's amazing! But I think he is also glad that I'm feeling much better :)

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Pigtails and playgroup

Lydia has allowed me to put elastics in her hair exactly two times in her life.
Neither time lasted very long, but it sure was cute.

I don't know what I'm going to do with her hair soon. It's getting longer in back and a little longer in front but still full mullet.
I love the curly ringlets in the back though.

Oh! My heart almost aches every time I look at her lately to see how grown up she is.

A few weeks ago at our ward playgroup the sprinklers came on mid morning at the park. Clearly an oversight on the city's part. However, the kids loved it!

Even though this meant going home to change before a trip to lunch with my coworkers, it was worth it to see the elation on her face.





I love this little girl with all my heart!

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Collegiate nostalgia

A couple of weeks ago Derek and I went with my brother, Brian, and his wife, Leslie Ann, to one of the homecoming events at my alma matter, Southern Utah University.

Hard to believe its been 10 years since I was a student there! Walking into the party made me feel like I'd stepped back in time. I couldn't believe how fantastic it was to be part of this quintessential college event.

From the live entertainment (featuring Peter Breinholt — an SUU staple at events when I was a student — Kurt Bestor and the Joe Muscolino (sp?) band) to the throngs of students, faculty and alumni, not to mention the fireworks and the insane amount of fantastic food and and ice sculpture to boot, I was feeling pretty good about showing off my school to Derek.
He and I have a bit of an SUU vs. Dixie State thing going at times but he admitted to being quite impressed.


I found myself spending the evening reveling in the past. I'm far from being the person who can't move on from her college glory days, but it was really fun for one evening to reminisce on an era of my life that can never be recreated.

It made me miss my college roommates. Seriously — girls from The Ave and The View, my heart smiles just thinking of you.
I could even picture where we would have been if we'd all been there together. Right in the thick of the crowd near the stage, singing our hearts out to the cover tunes.

I'm completely content in my life today, in fact I was thrilled to be at the concert with my husband instead of spending half the evening trying to be the eyeline of the right group of guys. But there is something about looking back on the college years that makes it easy to see why so many people later in life refer to them as "the good old days."

Saturday, September 10, 2011

Belated anniversary and happy birthday to me


I live in a beautiful place!


Sadly, our summer got away from us and with it went our intentions to, you know, actually celebrate our 6 year wedding anniversary in May. The actual anniversary was spent at my brother's wedding open house, so we wanted to follow up with a getaway of our own and, finally, over Labor Day, we did.

The trip also coincided with my birthday, so it worked out perfectly.

Thanks to my parents, Derek and I were able to get away without Lydia and enjoy two nights at Ruby's Inn in Bryce Canyon. It was so great! I love spending time with Derek and although I adore Lydia, it's nice to occasionally go back to the memories of when it was just the two of us and our conversations included full uninterrupted sentences at dinner ;)

Hot tub, sleeping in, great food, hiking,
talking, reading, shopping.

What's not to love?












The weekend ended with birthday dinner at my parent's house and reuniting with this little girl.


My mom made me this fantastic running shoe cake!


It totally went with my parents' theme gift of all things to pamper my feet (pedicure, slippers, movie to watch with my feet up etc.) So cute. It made me want to be someone who is worthy of a running shoe cake — meaning it encouraged me to recommit myself to being more regular with my running... and to work off a weekend (read: month long) celebration of food.

Such a great weekend!