
Today officially marks the sixth week of Lydia's life here on earth. I cannot believe she's already so old! Sadly, it also marks the half-way point through my maternity leave. But lest I start dripping tears on the keyboard, I'm not going to think about that right now. I prefer to pretend that world does not yet exist.
So, I realize there's not really anything super "official" about the six week mark, except that it signals the time when our pediatrician said we could start taking her places where there might be larger crowds. With caution, naturally.
Like true overly-protective first-time parents we have adhered pretty strictly to this six-week-no-crowds advice, avoiding everything from errand running to public gatherings with her -- much to the chagrin of some of our family and friends. I still plan to be cautious though. I mean, the dangers of swine flu and other seasonal ailments MAY be overly hyped in the media right now, then again all the hype may be for good reason. I prefer not to take any chances :) However, we have plans to parade her around at church before too long, and my colleagues at work may soon get a much-anticipated visit as well. As soon as I decide to stop pretending the work world doesn't exist :)
In her six weeks of life, here are a few things that melt my heart:*
Her smiles. Though not yet in direct response to Derek or myself, I know that is coming soon. She gets so excited sometimes and it comes out in a smiling coo that is so cute!
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She's a good eater. That's right, after a rocky start with too much weight lost, she's made up for lost time and at last check (last week) she weighed 10 pounds, having gained a full pound in nine days. Whoa!
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She's happy, most of the time. I am beyond grateful for the fact that she seems to cry only when she is in need of something and the majority of the time we can figure out what it is. If her basic needs are being met, she tends to be a pretty happy baby.
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She knows I'm her mom. I love that she seems to know (and has known for quite some time) that I'm her mom. I have always watched women gather up their crying infant from someone who is trying without success to comfort the little one and been amazed that they calm almost instantly. Lydia has done that with me several times and it's so rewarding!
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Stretch! I love watching her stretch when she is waking up from a nap. Her little arms barely reach above her head and for some reason this sends Derek and I into laughter every time.
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Family time. Derek and I have commented several times that the pace of our life has changed dramatically in the past six weeks. Although we've still managed to go on a date every week so far (yeah!) we spend many, many more evenings at home just hanging out that we did before. Naturally, Lydia is our main source of entertainment during these hangouts. She's just so fun to watch. I just feel so blessed to be at this stage in my life!

I just love my little girl!


Stretch!